The more I read the more I'm thinking about leaving. It's a shame this site has been a lifesaver for me but just reading all of this tonight has put a nasty taste in my mouth. One of my complaints in my 'real' life is that I don't get listened to, now it seems it might happen here to. Good communication skills are what keeps the world a safe place. This site is quickly becoming not a safe place.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15