Hi Jen!
I'm not sure what it all means but you handled it perfectly. You supported H and encouraged him to do what he needs to do. Obviously your H is depressed and has a lot of thinking to do. He may give you some answers when he gets back but then again he may continue to be confused. Don't expect anything and that way you won't be disappointed.

You may want to post your question about the stages of MLC on that forum.


Me47
H46
S13
M16
Piecing since May/09

"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz