Sandi is/was a 60+ year old woman, held a job at the Church, a grandmother, who had been in an affectionless mariage for 40 yrs. She was surviving, but then stumbled into an EA and got so freaked out by it that she sought help here. She thougt she might be having a late MLC, but she wanted to repair her marriage, and was working hard every single day to stay on course, as her H was disengaged.

Her last post was about finding websites that sold DBing books at low cost for people who couldn't afford new ones. She also provided a link to a man's newletter so a man can read what a woman might want in a relationship. She did this from her heart...I am certain of it. She wasn't into spamming and I doubt she knows what that is.