Thanks brother. Yes, it is very intriguing, and I will not fu*k it up.
She was surprised by something today. With my workouts, running and yoga, I am now able to get into a pair of Levi's 501s that I haven't been able to wear for about 5 years. She noticed and commented.
She is meeting with the girl she is renting the apartment from at 3pm, then they are going to a movie. She feels awful about spending another $1000 of 'our' money for the month of March, for what she thinks is selfishness on her part. She really beats herself up about this sometimes.
I asked her to stop thinking in those terms...WE are spending that money, not HER. It's for US and our marriage. Besides, it's cheaper than years of therapy.
She felt better after that, said "OK". That was the only R talk we had.
