And I have a question. You had spoken about falling back in love, i.e. your husband doing so. Now all along, there is no doubt that you loved your H, but did you too have to fall back in love with him? I ask because I see the statement so often, "I love him/her so much." From my standpoint, I did love Mrs IMP, but I wasn't feeling too much in love with her. I understand there is a loss and a void on the part of the LBS. But once the void is filled (and I have no reference point as I am now happily divorced), I have to imagine the real feelings from an LBS standpoint have to be mixed to a certain extent.
What was your falling back in love process like aside from the hard work you mentioned?
