Finding my way out of the dark

[peacetoday]

M
sorry for your pain
I think it is ok to ask H to do things within reason
My H does a lot around my house and that saves me money and it creates a nice friendship between us for now
I thank him and i think it makes him feel good,worthy
maybe helping us counteracts some of the guilt they feel for leaving,cheating
the pain is hard,especially in beginning
over time it is less intense
for now try to just take care of yopurself
C is helpful
talk to a friend or if you know someon who has been thru this.that helps
keep posting and venting here
peace