I totally feel you on that one. I have also had a lot of mixed emotions over the course of this stitch and even in the course of reading this thread and other's posts.
Mostly, I wish society actually taught these relationship skills and/or that I had found this site before my H was deep in an A and we were S.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2