I was thinking about something today that really bothered me. I remember when the OM used to say to my W and I when he was drunk..."you guys are so awesome, your kids are great,your such great friends, etc. " Now he has basically stolen that family from me...It's like he planned it all along..He admired our family so he saw the opportunity and he took it. Why didn't I see it?? I look back and remember being jealous when the kids wanted to spend time over there or my wife would make plans for all of us to spend time together almost every weekend. Or she would call him if we needed some sugar or an egg or something. I wish I would have done something...I don't know what but something....Now I here he is planning on building a bigger house and I suppose take my W and kids with him...It gets me sick!


H 42
W 37
M17 T20 years
3 daughters 11,11,14
seperated 11/26/07
EA neighbor/ moved in w/ him 2/8
Filed for D 01/08 finalized soon