Congratulations on your D success!! Congrats on your success re DBing. Doesn't it feel good when the roles change -even for a little bit- and you are feeling great and he is not? I am not a mean person and hardly ever have mean thoughts about anyone BUT I am tempted with these guys...
I am not very familiar with the stages. It wasn't until recently that I realised my H maybe going through tis s$$t.
And if you think going dark is working, then please continue...