" feel like I am to blame. maybe i should have said something different or maybe i should have been nicer"
Lisa,
I'm so sorry you are hear. I can relate all too well to the words you are saying above. I remember saying them to my pastor once and he said to me, "those are the words of a victim." Somewhere along the line, I became a victim in everything. Your words sound like the words of a victim too. It's time to take back the power of your life and of your value and your self worth. Give yourself space and time from this man. You will get stronger every day. You control you.
Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking. -Marcus Aurelius
