Hi, Neecy. Yes, I suppose it is nicer to know I have a choice. H said something yesterday about how's he stressing because he doesn't know what's going to happen. I know the feeling all too well.

Haven't heard from him yet today....that's actually a little bit of relief ....but he should be calling soon to let me know when he's on his way for the boys.

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell