Whether it builds fast or slow from friendship to flirting to PA, that seems to be the general pattern unless the UP is just a serial afairee. Unfortunately, the ones that start as friends seem to be the most dangerous because there is an EA as well. I think it would be much easier for the UP to give up the OW/OM if it was purely physical.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
