Holy crap Lisa!!!! Of all the things I have read since I have been on these boards....YOURS was the most promising. Let me say this, I know for a fact that you have done 99.9% of everything right. That .1% could be anything that you felt you could have done better. From the very beginning of you two getting back together and YOU doing, standing up, and sacrificing (to a certain extent)....you don't owe him JACK! If anything, you owe him a good ass-kicking!
D him? You bet! Although, as much as you know you don't want to be the one to do the leg-work on this, you will have to because this piece of crap that calls himself a man, is anything but that, and will not get this D underway...rather wait it out until he feels you are going to let him in.
Unreal that this happened. I would take him to the cleaners and then when he explains to his "friends" why he's having to work his ass off to pay/"owe" (I won't say support you because you were doing well without this douche nozzle!) you he can say that he pushed you and we as guys, know, that that means hit or assaulted. The truth always comes out and I am really sorry to hear that your sitch ended up like this.
Lisa, I hope you keep up the positive attitude and get the ball rolling on getting this piece of sh_t out of your life and kids lives....there is no reason they should be subjected to this piece of crap.
