Yeah! S19, S18, and a friend sent out last night, ended up at a different friend's house. Got home at 5:30. W is a bit perturbed at them, with good reason, as she didn't get a lot of sleep! If they would tell her where and when, she wouldn't say no, but they go all wishy washy, and won't give a straight answer. That's the hard part! S19 is up, I guess his Marine trainig has been good for something! S18....not so much!
You are a pretty driven person, aren't you? Sitting in a bar prep class a year ahead of time! I hope your H sees the light, and realizes the person you are! Because I think that now you would put just as much into your marriage!