Please listen to Alison and Lissie. This is not your fault. And it is so very, very bad for your kids to witness the abuse. I know it takes super human energy to deal with the mechancics of the D, even for those of us who only faced ordinary painful MLC antics. But sometimes it is just critical that we do it.
I wouldn't worry about what he is saying to people. What kind of people believe that we have room in our jails for people who just "push" somebody!
