I was reading One Day's thread. I saw you were wondering about other MLCers without OW. My H has never been involved with an OW and he says he has no interest in finding one. He has a good F friend but she's married and has been a ear to listen.
I'll be reading your entire sitch tonight.
Take care
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*