Hey GavinO... saffie gives good advice...Dig deep. You are a confident, strong, fit, put-together, cheerful man (act like it, whether you feel like it or not). It's time for you to get a life.
What are some solid actions that you can take this week that will make you more of "the man she married"? Do you know what she means, or is that just fluff talk?
What will you DO today to get you closer to your goal?