My story, please help

[GavinO]

I have started an account with moodgym (www.moodgym.com (or.co.uk) which is computer based CBT, seems helpful.

W stayed out last night didn't go to a b'day that she was going to , she went 'somewhere else' and did drinking games & drank from 9:30 until 2:30-3:00am, she said she woke up at 8:00am but was not home until 12:00pm.

She also said that her parents were telling her grandparents about our divorce as W couldn't deal with it, her gran was distraught.

When she got home she started packing stuff up but she also came down and sat with me for a bit (opposite) while rolling some fags. She asked what I was up to today, asked me where the marriage certificate was as she couldn't find it. I believe she knows where it is as she asked me to look where it is actually kept, I of course have no intention of doing so.We also sat in silence (not uncomfortable) for a while while she rolled fags. She also asked if I wanted the wedding stuff as she didnt want it.

She also reminded me that it was mothers day tomorrow. Also she was going to stay at her parents this weekend but said she was likely to return home as it would probably be too hectic. She also said that she had better get this done (move books to her parents).

My parents think things are more positive as we are talking and there are no sharp edges or cross words, and that she is actually approaching me to talk with me, still keeping me informed and so on.

Everyone is rooting for me as I am a nice guy and have a lot going for me, it is also obvious that I love my wife more than anything.

I don't think we need relate or anything like that, i am aware of what I did wrong and want the opportunity to show I have learned from it.

I hope she will stop and allow us to rebuild.

thanks for all the replies, they all help. It is good to have the support and help from people who have gone through/going through/have stopped divorce as there are wiser people here than me.