It sounds like going dark will benefit you and him...
Be strong.
Show him you have changed and are o.k. without him.
Even though I miss my ex, going dark brings peace and clarity.
Love, Trusting
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11