Well my first thread is locked up. Thank you to all the people who have given me so much insight over the past month and a half. Today is March 1, 2 months from the day that my H admitted that the person he had called 200 times in December also was his couchmate one time. Thought I might die that night. But look I'm still here! Are we any closer as a couple? I'm not sure.
Here is my last post:
Well H brought the tea and at 12:15 called to say they were going from his friends house to the bar for 1 beer and he would be a little later maybe 20 min. He came in at 3:15. I got up out of bed at 3 and drove to the bar(3 min away) to see if his car was there, it was just his and his friend's(another friend owns the bar). Back to being inconsiderate? Sounds like it. When he came home he wanted to know where I had gone since all the snow was scraped of the car. I told him and he said I can't believe you are hunting me down again. I said I didn;t come in, say antyhing or do anything, I just needed piece of mind. He got up late for work this morning, and I let him, I thought I am not fighting to get him up. We will see how this turns out as far as our "date" tonight.