S15 told me this morning that he is spending time with H today instead of tomorrow. I said ok and asked if H was coming to pick him up. At first he said no that he was walking to Hs house. Later he said H was coming to pick him up.

I had just got out the shower at this point (always slob about on a saturday until mid morning) so I quickly got dressed and did my hair. I had it cut yesterday so it looks great. Of course I put something on different to what I would've worn if I was just going to be slobbing round the house Added a squirt or two of perfume (I never wore it before and H was always trying to persuade me) and a little bit of make up. I'm wearing a jumper that a man at the bowling on Thursday night told me I looked nice in.

As usual it was me who opened the door. We did our obilgatory salutations of how are you etc. For a change S15 was ready so I thought they would leave immediately. I was wrong. H encouraged S15 to change his coat as they are going to a park to try out some stilts with springs on! Yes you read that right. H has borrowed them from someone. Now tell me he is not MLC
H then asked if he could use our toilet. That was a real surprise he has not gone further than the hall of our house for the best part of 12 months. I expect he must have been desparate \:\/

S15 and I had both expected OW to be with him but we both knew she wasn't by the fact that he didnt go scurrying back to the car the minute I opened the door. When I asked S15 what time he would be home H volunteered the info that they wouldn't be going back to his as OW is studying and wants peace and quiet. I nearly replied that makes two of us then but I resisted.

In my dreams I'd like to think that when he drops S15 back home again that he will come in for a drink of tea/coffee but I know that isn't going to happen so I'll keep it where it belongs for now: in fantasy land

Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15