I am very happy for you, it sounds as though he has been thinking a lot about what will make you happy. I know your decision is still a hard one, and I know you told H earlier it is not about control but it has to be nicer to be the one who has a choice instead of feeling like you have no other options.

Me~34
H~38
D6.5

EA/PA-DEC.07

Moved out~Apr.13,08
Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08
No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009