Sound like there are a lot of people in the same boat. It is miserable. What has helped me is to acept that I am in a bad spot right now, the toughest part of my life. It will not last forever and in the end i know I will be loved and cherished. Accept it and deal. Also it changes everyday, I feel better every day and i know that my babe is hurting a lot more than me which does not comfort me. I wish I could help her but I know I can not. She is going to need to figure this one out herself. I have also found that not matter what I say she she does not hear me but what I do has a huge impact.
