Just stopping by and catching up on your sitch. I agree that being lovely and charming is the way to go. Even though it's so tempting to act hurt, if you carry yourself with dignity and take the high road I think you will gain H's familys' support, and get them wondering what he's thinking.
I also think your letting MIL know you love H and are standing was excellent.
Enjoy the party today- I'll be thinking of you,
L.
Walk on, walk on, with hope in your heart. And you'll never walk alone.
