(my sit - h is not seeing ow, kinda back, but w/out the commitment, with no change in negative attitude towards me or our r and not being home for months due to his job)
he likes to talk, i made him an offer: i will do what he likes - talk the way he wants, if he would do what i like - having some fun-nice-whatever note or picture or something by email. he sent couple times - it was nice. but then he stopped. i let it slide - ok he is working hard but yesterday i said that we had and agreement and he is not following through. so i would not talk.
setting boundaries is hard for me. but it would be the repeat of or previous dynamic in the relationship if i would not do it.
me, h - 40+ m-20+ s, d, ss - 20+ s, ow, pa since 04.2007 h back and forth 01.2008 - 05.2008 h decided to be w/ow 05.13.2008 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1415899&page=1&fpart=1
