TRYING to enjoy the quietness

[Donamite]

You guys are too funny! Why not just get a VS catalog?

I planned to sleep in this am, but woke with feelings of I did it again!
I ran into a few of the mothers at my son's school (H works there) I told them what was going on. Am I trying to get them on my "side", get suppport, tell my side? I guess so.
Also, last night I talked briefly to H after speaking with boys. We always call at 730 to who has them.(H every other weekend) S10 says Daddy just put on a new PS2 game for S6. H does this. I call at 730 and the pizza just arrived, or he just put the movie on. He asked me about the great idea about how to solve the problem about the school district moving S6 to year-round school. He emailed me about this a few days ago and I ignored it. His idea was to use H's apt. address to keep him at the school he is. I am trying 180 to always agree, but failed this time. I said first that is illegal, second son doesn't live with you (thinking child support $ if documented that he does). He said, well he will be living here some of the time. I did NOT say, it is called visitation. I said, anyway, your address would put him at a different school. I should have said, yes, great idea, but wrong address for school.
I then told him how the doctor that did my surgery (ulnar nerve relocation 4 days before H moved out) wrote a letter in such a way that workmens comp denied the claim. I didn't sound mad, just frustrated, sad. I said there were a few other troubling things happening. He kind of questioned this and I said I couldn't talk about them now. I said I had to go, good night.
I want my M to work, I want him to see that it can. I am reading all about how my patterns and attitudes aren't working, I need to change, not just to save M, but to be happy.