Sgirl) - when my h left i didn't have any friends, any close friends. i conscientiously made a decision to have friends and i was blessed - i was able to develop some of my previous friendships to a deeper level and also found new ones. i ask one of my now dear friends - how to be friends? - she said - it's simple: you get what you put into it. most of my friends went through a similar situations one way or another.
about organization - have you heard about flylady?
me, h - 40+ m-20+ s, d, ss - 20+ s, ow, pa since 04.2007 h back and forth 01.2008 - 05.2008 h decided to be w/ow 05.13.2008 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1415899&page=1&fpart=1