Can you see that what your parents are saying is actually very hopeful.
I know my H found it very hard to be with me when I was depressed - living with someone who is suffering from depression is not easy. I think your parents are daed on about saying you need to work on you. That's what saved my M - my H saw the changes. He complicated it by having an A as he was so miserable but basically he was willing to turn back to me because he saw how hard I was trying to change.
Has your W spoken to your parents much about how she feels?
Dig deep and do this.
BTW are you a fellow Brit?
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
