I am saying HOW do I forgive, what is the actual act of forgiveness.
Why not ask W?
Hey fb2,
very simple and straight forward and probably needs to be done. The only reason I've not done it so far is I've been waiting for W to start R talks, which shes done once recently and was very tentative about it.
The closest she's come to this subject matter was some time ago where she said she knows shes hurt me and doesn't think that I would be able to forgive her. I guess a good question to ask would be if she wants to be forgiven. Before anyone jumpes up these talks will not be to grant "conditions of forgivness" it would just be a lead in to start talks about us in general.
