Yes, you are getting it!!! Enjoy your friends, drink wine and good scotch, be happy! If you exude happiness and confidence your wife will not want to let you out of her site.
My wife has been really digging me lately. When we first met I was on a roll... had a real Gordon Geko type attitude and look. For the past 2 weeks every time I knew she would see me I had on a pin stripe suit, Polo dress shirt, Armani tie, Gucci shoes, Rolex and hair geled and done perfectly. I always said... just got done working, not time to change.
SHE LOVED IT!!
It's actually quite simple... she wanted the man back that she married, not some boring dish rag that kissed her ass!
I believe that our situation really began to improve when I told her about 6 weeks ago to "Go F*k yourself. I think that was a real wake up call and a huge 180 for me. In her eyes, I got my balls back. Once I stopped kissing her ass and getting a life, she started to respect me again.
Looking back it seems so simple. It's just tough figuring this sh*t out when you are in the middle of a sh*t storm.
Rise above it. Get your own life and show her that you are perfectly fine without her. There are plenty of women that would love to be with the "Mink." -- It's true. Do a search on Yahoo personals and my bet is that over 1000 women are available in your area!
DO NOT KISS HER ASS! IF YOU DO, SHE WILL NOT RESPECT YOU!
