That's the other thing I was going to bring up! I was going to wait until tomorrow, but since you are here... A big part of surviving this is Getting a Life. You'll see it as GAL, a lot! You find a life for you. A lot of us have forgotten that, or left it behind. It helps you survive. The other thing it does, eventually, is to make you more interesting to your spouse, when they are ready to be interested. You won't look like a desperate, lonely person. You'll look like an interesting person.
By the way, it was 82 here today. I think we have left "winter" behind!
