I read your good-bye post over in piecing and now this one.
My own experience over here has been comforting. The people are good here and we all did our best to save our M. I've experienced personal growth on this forum more so than some of the others. I've witness the growth of others and have been influenced in a positive manner by their stories. I think it's very important to take the time to heal. It doesn't necessarily end when D is the inevitable conclusion.
The rollercoaster has come to a stop, but the motion sickness is still there. Take your time to absorb what has happened and know that it's important to make peace with your stbx and with yourself.
This really isn't the end of your journey, it's the beginning. How you move forward will define you and leave an impression on others close to you.. There are a lot of examples in this forum of how to graciously do that.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
