Help, it seems my 35 year old wife is in MLC #11

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Grace, How are you? The kids are good, they are at Ws right now. She has taken them away for the weekend to a frinds of OWs (a lesbian couple) I'm not sure how I feel about that but I don't think the kids understand what is going on and they like all the snow that is there so I guess I'm ok with it.

I think Ws fantasy is coming true. Only it's more like a nightmare!

I'm here again at midnight. So far this week it's been 12, 1, 1:30, 2 and who know what time I'll leave tonight. I'm feeling a little burnt out.

PH, I'm hoping to GAL Saturday night. I'm glad to hear that your going away. I'm talking about going to Vegas in June but I don't think I'm going to be able to go being that I'm thinking of moving. Still, I'd like to go.

Ws actions and opinions are a product of the people that she associates with. Many of the MLCers we read about here spent a lot of time with divorced people or people younger than they are. Well, my W spent time with a divorced woman who had "experimented" and an actual lesbian coworker.

MMF, Interesting once again. Way back in the beginning of all of this my W wanted to go have an ongoing Lesbian A while carrying on our M and wanted me to be ok with that.

Sandi, I have read some of his material and get his newsletters. (I also have Michelle's books and many others) I have mixed opinions of him. Are you (as a woman) saying you agree with his opinions? My problem is that he portrays himself as a relationship expert meanwhile he has no formal training and has actually been divorced 2 or 3 times. That aside, my bigger issue is that he, in many instances, talks about women in a manner that indicates he believes that women have no self control and are basically more like animals than human.

For example, he likes to talk about women and bordom. His position seems to be that if woman become bored in anyway in their R then they will leave. They do this because they are women and that is what women do. There is no taking in to account what is best for all involved, children or financial stability. It's simply that if women get bored, they will leave and it is up to men to keep them from getting bored. This seems vastly oversimplified to me.

I'm not saying that I disagree with everything that he has to say. His general message of Man up / Stop being a wuss is right on I think. Again, I'm interested to hear your opinion of his writing.