Yes I believe and have believed that he wants me to be the bad guy and throw him out, he even asked me if he should even come home at all, so I reminded him of D's b'days, he said he remembered but still wanted to know if I wanted him here.

Man this sucks! Like what am I suppose to do? He said he wanted to know how I felt right then when he was telling me where he was at. I asked him why it even mattered he could care less, told him if he really cared he wouldn't even be there right now. Didn't say anything, what a A**.


M 45
H 42

D 26
D 18
S 16

Married 19 years
Together 24 years
ILYBNILWY 1/7/08
OW 10/11/07
ended affair 3/14/08
came home 3/14/08
last contacted ow 3/17/08
4/19/08 trying to piece marriage back.