ty hon, \:\) I always give you guys credit for my sanity whenever I have to explain my sitch, you all have been such lifesavers in these past years)))))

H is squirming a bit, I got a loose quote from the CS website and it almost amounts to one of his paychecks (I will be filing for real next week to get the real amount), he is taking his big debt with him (the one he accrued during the first S) and after all that, there isnt much left. He wants to get an efficiency to have kids overnight, but after paying CS he's about 300$ short. I wont sell my self short but I told him we'd work something out with the mediator, it is important he has time with the children, and I'd miss them terribly but it would be good for the kids to spend the night now and them with him, H does want a place with no room mates where he can have them with him.

I think I found a good mediator, perhaps we'll begin mediation in a week or so, H seems in such a hurry, but I'll do things at my pace and make sure the kids and i are taken care of.

Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.