I have been keeping up the patience with him bit, but it just isn't helping. I had made demands before (have your cell phone out around me, ML to me, tell me you love me, wear your ring, etc). I haven't pushed any of those agendas for a couple weeks. And things have been so much better. But it seems the less I push the further he is sliding. I rolled over to put my arm around him last night and he literally had the covers tucked under him?? Then later in the night/morning I woke up and tried again, and as I tried to spoon him he said he was "too hot"--it was hot though, but it sucked....
Then today I get home from work and am being my best Chipper Charlie. He is determined to be crabby and pi$$y about the cost of truck repairs he had today. Anything I said was met with anger. But he was nice to the kids and to people he talked to on the phone? I asked why my kindness was met w/such anger and he replied that I should "just stop talking" to him, period. He left 45 min. ago to get some beer and hasn't returned. I don't want him to move and yet I am almost relieved he moves to Iowa Sunday. I just wanted to create some POSITIVE memories of us before he left..........he seems determined to keep that from happening no matter how loving/upbeat I try to be.....
