Frank, very well stated. Sounds like you are getting to a better place. You know the drill, find your path and stick to it. Let your W swirl in her directionless world without it impacting you in any way.
You (and Theoden) were my examples in this philosophy and I cannot tell you how much this has changed my life. Not sure where the situch will end up, but I now am so focused on doing what I want and pursuing my goals, that W's MLC world just seems to be totally irrelevant. To be honest, can't remember what I ever saw in her. Sad but true.
Take care, SD
Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread