now that was funny amyc..................love it............i'm starting to get quite amused by all this...........i haven't written on the boards this much in a very long time. great way to get people out on these very cold winter days!!
Of course I emailed every DB figure I could find to try a determine why I was banned. No response on that until yesterday morning when SG emailed me to say that I had been banned because of the negativity in my posts.
But the reasons for banishments vary. Not all posters were banned for negativity.
Golly, we're all in, or have been in, very ill marriages. You think there might be just a little negativity around? It's not Disneyland! I didn't see that in the "rules", except the one that says they can make up the rules as they go along. Don't they (she) see that the boards need the posters as much as the posters need the boards?
Of course I emailed every DB figure I could find to try a determine why I was banned. No response on that until yesterday morning when SG emailed me to say that I had been banned because of the negativity in my posts.
But the reasons for banishments vary. Not all posters were banned for negativity.
If negativity were the stick by which they measured whether or not to ban someone, I should have been banned 2 weeks ago when this crap started. The excuse given to Bworl is a crock.
I've been without much access to the "net" for the last month but what do I find when I do have access to this very valuable forum?
I see a bunch of "solution" this and that for almost a full page, all posted beginning with a moderator who has been AWOL since I came to this site.
There was never a need for a mod in the MLC forum as I have seen since I came here but now, one has awakened, and it isn't for the good of the forum.
You see SCGwhatever we were doing just fine here until you decided to show up. The reality is we don't need you here and unless you have first hand experience with MLC you shouldn't be here.
This MLC is a much different animal than the rest, your bannings and interjection serve no usefull purpose here. Please leave it to us, the forum members to police our own actions.
This is probably bannable, so be it, I've dealt with worse rejection.
I've been a moderator here for years. However, I took time off. When Michele started this site, I knew everyone, and their history. Upon my return, there were thousands of new people. It is virtually impossible to read everyone's entire past history - consisting of 100's or 1000's of posts. However, I usually bookmark my the posts I responded for follow-ups.
I probably suggested DB coaching for Mrs. H., Michele never tells us to suggestive sale. I was unaware of Mrs. H's financial circumstances. I apologize for this oversight. If I mention DB products and services, I do not receive a commission. I am here because I believe in her marriage-saving techniques. Michele impacted my life, and the lives of my friends. I truly meant no harm.
To all posters: In this thread, short1 says:
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I spend time on this site to support you and your marriage. That is the point. Let's face it folks this is not altruism. MWD is a business. She sells books, tapes, sessions, etc. It is a product and a good one at that.
As a buyer, I searched the internet for help in my marriage. There are thousands of sites out there. All of them have products to sell and testimonials of users to back them up. Why did I pick this place to spend my time and money? Because this was one of the few sites that had LIVING, BREATHING, PROOF!
When Michele's parents were divorced, she developed a passion to save marriages. This moment, she is an accomplished marriage therapist, author, orator, coach, and the host of this site. Also, she is a wife, and a mother.
This is not my FULL-TIME job. I am here because I believe in DB! I sacrifice my sleep, and other GAL x to be here. Why? I've been separated, and I know that Michele's techniques work.
It is virtually impossible for one person to respond to each and every post. However, I am doing my best.
