Tied to the Whipping Post

[Punktmann]

Drew,

I've got to respond to missmyfriend's question, hope it helps.

Early in this crisis, after moving to a place of my own which is very quiet when the kids are not with me, I believe I was able to "hear" answers to my prayers. This is what I heard:
"Have patience"

"This had to happen"

"Do what Jesus expects of you"

I also heard a specific answer to my prayer, "what should I do"? The answer........

"Do nothing"

The last is the one I have struggled with the most.

As far as the house goes I understand where you're coming from. If you can keep it and provide as much stability for your children as possible, I say go for it. They need as much stability as we can provide right now, your W's feelings are secondary by comparison.

Drew, thank you for this.

I was mostly taking a break from the boards, but I read this when you wrote it, and it had a big impact on me.

Especially,

"Do nothing"

Thanks again.