Pinkribbon - just wanted to let you know on your thread that your excitement over your nails motivated me to get a somewhat different haircut today before I dropped off 5D. It's amazing how good you feel when you do something simple like that. I told the hairsylist, Karen, to make me look sexy. I felt like I looked so good she might attack any minute...lmao...of course no attack but good few minutes, in accordance with my plan.
btw, I mentioned her name b/c that is a 180 for me and something that might help. I struck up 3 meaningful conversations with strangers and names while I was at the haircut place. One woman dug out a book with lots of highlighting. Turned right to her bookmark, "how to restore a relationship" turns out I have that book "purpose driven life" but haven't read it yet. Blah blah...never would've had that conversation with her had I not just said something. When I left I even thanked her and told her how she inspired me. Sure wish I could talk to my wife the way I feel now. I am just so happy with the choices I am making. blah blah...your thread...hope the talk to strangers, in public, gives you an idea...oh and I gave the hairstylist a 30% tip, more 180's. They aren't that hard once you get started...ordered the new item at the restraunt...180 all day long...feels great...