I guess I never should of held him on a pedistal (quietly as he thinks I made him feel worthless)
Always Shopping (Gosh that could have been my name during the D!!!),
He probably would have come up with some other excuse for the A. In some cases they start with a safe friendship, very slowly build, and then the the line gets blurred and crossed unintentionally.... reasons for one can always be found.
(Not that all marriages are "perfect" and there aren't things that need work... I believe we may be responsible for some problems in the marriage, but we aren't "responsible" for a spouse's affair. Although a spouse might like to think so!!!).
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
