Well instead of complaining when H let me know he would be home between 11:30 and 12, I asked him to drop me off a tea on the way - and I asked him out on a date tomorrow night to dinner and a movie, and he agreed :-)
See... You are doing good...sometimes we forget that our spouses can't read our minds... If we want something we need to ask. I have found that the more freadom I gave my W and the more I took she would tend to come to me instead of me chasing her..
Still no sex but I am working on that..
Dr Love
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know