SF- I don't remember all of the details of your sitch, but has he tried to find an "in-between" place before he moves home? Maybe he can stay with friends or family for a bit? Does OW know what's going on with him?
No, there is no place he can stay because he has no money to do so and we have no family he can stay with and he would not stay with anyone else.
I am not sure what OW knows or does not know but I get a sneaky feeling that he could care less and could be waiting for her to get mad enough to say it is over. Just a hunch because he drinks alone even though she is there and he is staying up all night or most of the night.......what kind of person wants that?
Women have intuition and I will bet she knows deep down that her time is up.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19