Ann, You are a stranger to my thread; I always learn a thing or two from your posts so thanks. Yes, I'm still in limbo for all practical purposes.
Originally Posted By: Ann
We forgive those things, but we don't forget, so when we start feeling similar to that again, it's easier to get back to that moment of hurt/anger/frustration like it just happened.
Yes, I realize its like some one-way switch going off in a women's psyche and its impossible to turn back on. Harping on these small things from way back only serves to keep it off. That's why I urge you to fix the communication before that happens to you. I wasn't a doormat: I got defensive when she complained, attacked or was disrespectful and that didn't help either.
