Thanks Michelle. I feel better already.

Actually, the last breakup (summer) had religious stuff too. But, this time it may be stronger. I hadn't thought of that, a different situation this time.

My shrink says if you want to be with someone bad enough, the "excuses" will fall away, even religious ones.

Thanks for reminding me that this is all about her. I have trouble remembering that. (One of those boundary issues I've had trouble with before.)

K