My husband cheats. The first time was devastating with STD also. Then there was secret romance with co worker, that lasted 5 years. Then I found condoms and text message with massage therapist. Yesterday I found condoms again in his baggage. Today he says he just can't get what he needs from me because I don't give him enough sex. OK, well we have sex maybe twice a week and it is always the same. I feel It doesn't matter how many times I have sex with him or what I do with him he will always want other women. It is always about sex. Other than that we are a very successful couple. Years ago I resigned that I will never have a loving and healthy sexual relationship with my husband. The more he cheats the less I want sex with him. Just typing this and getting it out makes me realize that I have to be really stupid. Does anybody have any insight here? I am so scared and really really sad.
