She's Gone - No Contact

[MichelleLT]

I too have been tempted to set timelines in my head. Oh, this person's WAS was willing to reconcile in 6 mo. Or, the affair should be over by now.

Every stitch is different though, and your current one is different from previous experiences with her. It's always a blow to pass those times, but it's what happens.

Especially since she has a LOT to work through to decided if she'd even be willing to have a R with you because of her religious stuff.

Just remember, this is about her. She is not doing this to you to get a reaction, as a wake-up call, or to try and fix the R. It is about her, her feelings, and her issues.

You can only control yourself, so work on being happy. If that means moving on with your life and finding someone else, that is your decision. You will know when you are ready.