Steelers Fan - Husband Making Progress Part III

[ACJ]

Actually, do not help him with the D

I haven't been.

or slow it down

I have done that. The first letter I received from Hs L was last June we still have not finalised anything. That's my fault as I have been too busy to get things like my house valued etc. Do you think I should do a 180 here?

Watch how long he drags his feet

Yes in part he is dragging his feet but I think that is partly b/c he doesn't want to interact with me directly and so he does it all via his L which obviously costs him (and me) money.

Remember the watch his actions, not his words?

I don't have any choice. His only words to me are 'yes I'm well thank you' (after I have asked him) and goodbye (when he leaves with the kids). Anything else is to complain or to try to initiate an arguement (which I try to dissipate). This interaction occurs approx once a month. I'm not allowed to TM him and he rarely replies to any emails I send him. His actions to me clearly say that he is definately done with our M.

I think she can vouch for the fact that you do not know what they are thinking

I accept that.