TJ is one that will not admit making a mistake. He has not to this point. I think he will open up to me when he has more information that he can trust me. I have changed, and he needs to trust my changes. He needs to measure how consistent the new Holly is. Then I will get more.
He is carrying on as if he decided to give M another chance, and got rid of OW, and is working on our relationship sssslllllloooooowwwwllllly.
But I get to see him every weekend, 4 in a row. We live 4 hours apart. So, his words do not match his actions again.
Become a forensic expert on your H. You have the advantage of history, you should be pretty good at it! Do not discount any + step he takes, or even the lack of a - step, ok?
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
