MIDLIFE CRISIS- from Michele plus RESOURCE THREADS

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So remind me how 'acting as if' works when you hardly ever see your spouse.

If you hardly ever see your spouse.....FOCUS ON THE EXCEPTIONS.

and a different technique might be more helpful depending on your situation.


The point is....while there is no magic cure, you're not completely helpless in changing your PATTERNS OF INTERACTION.


If you have few interactions, focus on those few, not the interactions that aren't occurring.